Jon Prezant

THERAPY FOR GAY AND QUEER JEWS

FOR WHEN NEITHER COMMUNITY FEELS LIKE HOME RIGHT NOW

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Jon Prezant, LCSW, sex and couples therapist

GAY JEWISH THERAPIST FOR LGBTQ+ JEWS

JON PREZANT, LCSW, MA, CST — AASECT-CERTIFIED SEX AND COUPLES THERAPIST

Therapy where no part of who you are needs defending. I’m a gay, Israeli-American Jew, a licensed clinical social worker, and an AASECT-certified sex therapist. I work online with gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer Jews across New York, New Jersey, New Hampshire, and Florida.

Many of my clients have lost something specific: friends, community, colleagues, and mentors. Sometimes the loss came from queer spaces that once felt like home and now feel closed to them as Jews. Sometimes it came from Jewish spaces that never fully made room for them as queer people. Standing between the two produces a particular kind of isolation, and few therapists are equipped to recognize it.

What I help with: isolation and grief after losing community; antisemitism in queer, professional, and activist spaces; coming out in an observant or traditional family; reconciling faith and sexuality; dating and partnership as a queer Jew; and sex, desire, and relationships. I work with individuals and couples, from secular to observant.

I hold an MSW from Yeshiva University, an MA in Trauma and Crisis Studies from Tel Aviv University, and certification in sex therapy through AASECT and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. I live in Brooklyn with my husband and our dog, Bernie.

WHAT JEWISH CLIENTS BRING IN:

QUEER SPACES THAT STOPPED FEELING SAFE

The groups, bars, organizations, and friendships that once felt like home, and now seem to require keeping part of yourself quiet. We make room to name that loss and grieve it.

LOSING THE PEOPLE WHO MENTORED YOU

Colleagues who went silent, or a mentor who said something you can't forget. Professional isolation is quieter than a public rupture, and it often goes unacknowledged.

JEWISH SPACES THAT NEVER QUITE FIT

A shul, a family, or a school that accepted you on the condition that you be someone else. Coming out in an observant world, or leaving it, brings its own set of losses and decisions.

BUILDING A LIFE WITH SOMEONE

Hoping to find a Jewish partner in a small community, balancing two families' expectations, or deciding whether and how to have children. We work through the questions your relationship is actually facing.

Your Questions, Answered.

Everything you need to know about starting therapy with me.

HOW THERAPY WORKS

No. I’m Israeli-American and I don’t hide it, but my politics don’t belong in your therapy. You’re welcome to bring whatever you feel about Israel, the community, or your own Judaism, and we’ll work with it.

I trained at Yeshiva University and know that world well. Whether you left, stayed, or are somewhere in between, I won’t treat your choice as the problem.

That depends on what brings you in. Many clients meet weekly for several months, and we’ll revisit the pace together as we go.

Is This For Me?

Many of my clients aren’t. For a lot of people, being Jewish is about history, family, and belonging more than observance, and losing that belonging hurts regardless.

Yes, including queer Jewish couples and couples in which one partner is Jewish and the other isn’t. I’m also a couples and sex therapist, so sex and desire are part of what we can address.

No. I’m out-of-network. Sessions are $200, and I provide a monthly superbill you can submit to your insurer for reimbursement. Check your benefits in about a minute.

Where I work

NYC and all of New York State, New Jersey, New Hampshire, Florida. All sessions online.

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Jon Prezant, LCSW, MA

GAY JEWISH THERAPIST · AASECT-CERTIFIED · NY, NJ, NH, FL

Jon Prezant, LCSW, AASECT-certified sex and couples therapist

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