THERAPY FOR EJACULATION CONCERNS

Therapy for men who finish sooner than they want to, men who can’t finish with a partner even though they can on their own, and the couples living with either. I’m a licensed clinical social worker and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, and I work online across New York, New Jersey, New Hampshire, and Florida.

Most men arrive having tried everything: numbing sprays, thinking about baseball, pills, tracking the minutes. Those approaches treat sex as a performance to be managed, and that pressure is usually part of the problem. I work on the expectations men have absorbed about what sex is supposed to look like, and on building the ability to stay present instead of monitoring yourself. Where a physical cause is possible, I’ll recommend a urologist or pelvic floor physical therapist and coordinate with them.

What I work with: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation or difficulty reaching orgasm with a partner, ejaculation changes from antidepressants or other medications, anxiety that builds from one bad experience, avoiding sex or dating because of it, and the strain it puts on a relationship. I work with gay, bi, and straight men, alone or with a partner.

I hold an MSW from Yeshiva University, an MA in Trauma and Crisis Studies from Tel Aviv University, and certification in sex therapy through AASECT and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. I live in Brooklyn with my husband and our dog, Bernie.