Therapy for the part of erectile problems that medication doesn’t reach. I’m a licensed clinical social worker and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, and I’ve been featured as an expert on men’s sexuality in Men’s Health. I work online with men across New York, New Jersey, New Hampshire, and Florida.

It happened once, maybe twice. Now you’re thinking about it before anything starts, partway through, and afterward, and that monitoring is what keeps the problem going. Most men I see have already read everything available online and understand how erections work. What reading can’t touch is the belief, often years old, that losing an erection means something is wrong with them.

What I treat: erections that are unreliable with a partner or fade partway through, performance anxiety, early or delayed ejaculation, anxiety that began after a single difficult night, and erectile changes related to illness, medication, or age. When a medical evaluation makes sense, I refer to sexual medicine urologists I work with, so the physical and psychological sides are treated together.

I hold an MSW from Yeshiva University, an MA in Trauma and Crisis Studies from Tel Aviv University, and certification in sex therapy through AASECT and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. I live in Brooklyn with my husband and our dog, Bernie.