Therapy that takes gay men’s sex lives as seriously as the rest of their lives. I’m a gay man, a licensed clinical social worker, and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, and I work online with gay, bi, and queer men across New York, New Jersey, New Hampshire, and Florida.

Many gay men I work with have had a therapist who became visibly cautious when sex came up, or who treated their sex life as the symptom. I’ve been quoted on gay men’s sexuality in Out and VICE, and I talk about hookups, apps, porn, bottoming, and chemsex as directly as I talk about anything else.

What I help with: porn or hookups that feel out of hand, erectile difficulties and anxiety about topping or bottoming, body image and the pressure of gay male beauty standards, dating fatigue and app burnout, loneliness in your thirties, forties, and beyond, shame carried from growing up, and relationships and open arrangements.

I hold an MSW from Yeshiva University, an MA in Trauma and Crisis Studies from Tel Aviv University, and certification in sex therapy through AASECT and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. I live in Brooklyn with my husband and our dog, Bernie.